Living by faith is a tall order, but it is the only wisdom in living in this material world with disinformation and misinformation. Your living by faith is everything in your everyday life and living.
Sunday, December 24, 2023
HEALTHY POSTURE HEALTHY VISION
Thursday, December 21, 2023
EMBRACING TO LETTING GO
Wednesday, December 20, 2023
PARENTAL ANGER
Conflicts and misinterpretations often lead to anger with parents, resulting in the development of future relationships with a lack of love and trust. Conflicts with biological parents, stepparents, foster and adoptive parents may vary in intensity, and even change drastically due to the separation and divorce of parents. In addition, bad parental relationships may worsen due to the following:
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The birth of a new baby
demanding more parental attention.
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Financial problems, such
as unemployment.
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Development of anxiety
and depression in both parents and children.
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Experiences of abuse and
bullying at home, at school or elsewhere.
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Drug and alcohol use.
Children, while growing up into preteens and teenagers, often become more independent and more responsible, with their own perspectives and preferences in every aspect of their lives. Their mental and emotional changes are the foundations of their disagreements with their parents, including their time management, their doings, and non-doings, as well as their obedience and disobedience to their parents’ demands.
But, according to The Milwaukee Journal Sentinel, the boy later confessed that he
carried out the heinous act out of his anger after his mother refused to
buy him a VR headset. Members of his family further revealed the 10-year-old
boy’s many previous episodes of erratic anger and rage issues, such as setting
fire at home and causing explosion when his demands were rejected by his
mother.
Even while being interrogated by the FBI,
the boy surprisingly asked if the VR headset that he ordered from Amazon the
day after killing his mother had arrived or not.
The Bottom Line
· Spending more quality time with more one-on-one interactions with your children as they grow up.
· Finding the right time to address any issue, instead of responding to it right away.
· Listening to complaints without any interruption.
· Acknowledging their needs and wants, and explaining to them the differences between needs and wants.
· Connecting or reconnecting them with warmth, such as hugging.
· Being willing and open to any compromise.
· Teaching them about love, compassion, forgiveness, and empathy.
· Helping them set their own life goals, and not what you want them to do.
Angry No More: A new book on how to control and eradicate your anger.
Stephen Lau
Copyright© by Stephen Lau
Tuesday, December 19, 2023
NO ATTACHMENTS
Monday, December 18, 2023
MAKE YOUR BABY SUPERSMART
Stephen Lau
Sunday, December 17, 2023
THE DARK SIDE OF ATTACHMENTS
It cannot be ruled by interfering.”
Let your mind rest at peace.
Watch the workings of all of creation,
They grow and flourish and then return to the source.
Returning to the source is stillness,
The way of nature is unchanging.”
Saturday, December 16, 2023
MARRIAGE ACCOUNTABILITY
ACCOUNTABILITY IN MARRIAGE TO GOD
Lack of accountability to God for what you’ve been doing to your marriage and your marriage partner is one of the reasons why divorce is rampant these days.
You’re living in a world in which injustice and vengeance are rampant. Living in the midst of this storm of unfairness may cause you unhappiness and even your own lack of faith in God.
But seeing the lack of accountability in others should, on the contrary, enhance your own accountability not only in your marriage but also in your everyday living. God is forever just and will bring judgment and justice to all—at His own timeline.
An illustration
In 1984, Archbishop Valerian Trifa was deported from the United States after being accused of being a Nazi supporter, who not only had incited attacks on Jews, but also was responsible for executing many Jews in World War II.
After World War II, the former Nazi supporter came to the United States as a refugee immigrant. He assumed the name of Valerian Trifa, and he was ordained as a priest of the Rumanian church soon after his arrival in the United States. He rose quickly to the rank of bishop and then archbishop, who lived in comfort in a 25-room farmhouse on a 200-acre estate maintained by his church.
Then, a dentist, who was a Nazi survivor, recognized the Archbishop as the Nazi supporter. The case against the Archbishop was reported in the media, and then pursued for more than a decade long by some survivors of the Nazi, Jewish organizations, journalists, as well as by the Justice Department of the United States. Their joint efforts helped focus public attention on those Nazi war criminals who were living in the United States.
At first, the Archbishop vehemently denied his former identity, despite some handwriting experts had confirmed that his handwriting was identical with that in some of the execution orders he had carried out while he was a Nazi supporter. As luck would have it, with the advancement of forensic science, some experts could incredibly still retrieve some DNA from those execution orders with the Archbishop’s own saliva on them. That was his undoing, and his final judgment.
In 1982, the Archbishop was ultimately ordered to leave the United States. But he had spent two years trying to find a country that would give him refuge. In 1984, Portugal admitted him, and he finally settled in Estoril, where he died at the age of 72 of a heart attack.
So, believe that God is merciful, but also a just God, who’ll judge injustice and any wrongdoing according to His own timeframe.
So, living in the presence of God is showing your accountability to every aspect of your married life. So, be faithful to your marriage partner to receive the blessings of God in your marriage.
Getting Married to Make You Happy?
Stephen Lau
Copyright© by Stephen Lau
Thursday, December 14, 2023
LIFE PURPOSE
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